"What you feel you ARE
always dominates what you feel you would like to be;
therefore, to be realized, a wish must be felt
as a state that IS rather than a state that is NOT...
You must assume the feeling that would be yours
had you already realized your wish...
If you dwell on difficulties, barriers or delays,
the subconscious accepts (those) as your request
and proceeds to produce them in your outer world."
~ Neville Goddard, Feeling Is The Secret